Self therapy does not exist.
Conventional medicine does not exist.
Assisted reproduction therapy does not exist.
Sexual abuse from childhood, rape or a painful first sexual experience is the most common psychological causes of vaginismus (a defense against recalling the painful memories). Vaginismus is the involuntary (not under the woman’s conscious control) clamping of the vaginal muscles that does not allow penetrative sex needed for pregnancy.
Failure to consummate the marriage (the inability to deposit semen in the vagina) is one of the reasons some couples are unable to have a baby. Added to the stress of the sexual dysfunction, they now have to cope with the additional insult of being unable to conceive naturally.